Tuesday, May 31, 2016

Allie Brosh thoughts about self motivation


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Allie Brish  once said most people can motivate
themselves to do things
simply by knowing that those
things need to be done. But
not me. For me, motivation is
this horrible, scary game
where I try to make myself
do something while I actively
avoid doing it. If I win, I have
to do something I don't want
to do. And if I lose, I'm one
step closer to ruining my
entire life. And I never know
whether I'm going to win or
lose until the last second.

Sunday, May 29, 2016

REJECTED MOURINHO A TREASURE FOR MANCHESTER

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It's was the former Chelsea manager Jose Mourinho when he was still in Chelsea  was being called with all sorts of bad names by football lovers who don't support Chelsea FC  which later affected the Chelsea fans and mounted pressure on Club  the owner to get Mourinho sacked. The club owner listened to such critics minds and fired Mourinho.
Later, Mourinho was signed by the Manchester United football club to be their new manager to replace Louis van
Gaal at Old Trafford. The joyous, great feeling, and the eagerness the Manschester fans accepted their new boss Mourinho taught me this lessons.

Appreciate your present
Don't listen too much
Your Ex would be someone's new
Focus on the know hows

Saturday, May 28, 2016

POSITIVE SIDE!


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A Father was reading a magazine and his
little daughter every now and then distracted
him. To keep her busy, he tore one page on
which was printed the map of the world. He
tore it into pieces and asked her to go to her
room and put them together to make the
map again.
He was sure she would take the whole day
to get it done. But the little one came back
within minutes with perfect map……When he
asked how she could do it so quickly, she
said, “Oh…. Dad, there is a man’s face on the
other side of the paper….. I made the face
perfect to get the map right." She ran
outside to play leaving the father surprised.

MORAL OF THE STORY:
There is always the other side to whatever
you experience in this world. Whenever we
come across a challenge or a puzzling
situation, look at the other side…. You will
be surprised to see an easy way to tackle
the problem.

THE BIOGRAPHY I


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Having read the biographies of many heroes and heroines of all time in the world, I  observed that 95% emphasis were based on how they lived their life and 5% what they said during their life on earth. There is no excuse anyone can give if he want to be celebrated as hero he must live a life a meaningful and blameless one. For all you know people will welcome and tolerate you not for what you say but what you do.
Be careful of the things you do with your life. You may think no one is watching but rest assured people will judge you from the way you do your things.

Share!


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There once was a farmer
who grew award-winning
corn. Each year he entered
his corn in the state fair
where it won a blue ribbon.
One year a newspaper
reporter interviewed him
and learned something
interesting about how he
grew it. The reporter
discovered that the farmer
shared his seed corn with
his neighbors.
"How can you afford to
share your best seed corn
with your neighbors when
they are entering corn in
competition with yours
each year?" the reporter
asked.
"Why sir," said the farmer,
"didn't you know? The wind
picks up pollen from the
ripening corn and swirls it
from field to field. If my
neighbors grow inferior
corn, cross-pollination will
steadily degrade the quality
of my corn. If I am to grow
good corn, I must help my
neighbors grow good corn."
He is very much aware of
the connectedness of life.
His corn cannot improve
unless his neighbor's corn
also improves.
So it is with our lives.
Those who choose to live in
peace must help their
neighbors to live in peace.
Those who choose to live
well must help others to live
well, for the value of a life is
measured by the lives it
touches. And those who
choose to be happy must
help others to find
happiness, for the welfare
of each is bound up with the
welfare of all.
The lesson for each of us is
this: if we are to grow good
corn, we must help our
neighbors grow good corn.
It is possible to give away and become richer! It is
also possible to hold on too tightly and lose
everything. Yes, the liberal man shall be rich! By
watering others, he waters himself.

Friday, May 27, 2016

Think!


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When you think you feel good. Big thinkers are specialist in creating positive forward - looking optimistic pictures in their own minds and in the minds of others. To think big, we must use words which produce big, positive mental imagines. Great achievers are just ordinary people with an extraordinary amount of determination and thinks ahead of their colleagues

FIVE STEPS TO MAKING HELPFUL DECISIONS


Today I would like to outline the above topic with you.

Speak to your object of worship (God) and listen to him.

Consider all the alternatives.

Consider the effects of the decision - especially on your loved ones.

Make today's decision with tomorrow in mind

Last but new not the least, balance intuition with logic.

Thursday, May 26, 2016

YOU GOT IT ALL!


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The power to produce wealth is within you. It is locked up inside your talent. Develop your talent into saleable skill and your life will be transformed. You are no different person from Bill Gate, T.D. Jakes, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Barack Obama, Lionel Messi and the likes. Be creative with your talent, experiment, never lose concentration.
It's not too late to exhibit what you have.
Abraham Lincoln the 16th president of U.S.A  before been the president lost elections in chains from the local level to the presidency, yet he never made such things worry him because he knew want he possess is enough to get to the top. You  got it all don't let the hijacker's waste your time.

STOP THE DEFEND GAME AND MOVE ON!


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Basically, scoring a point by trying to be always right has been the major source  of self defence in the modern world.
Anytime that you try to defend yourself for the fear that your image would be tarnished you have completely failed. Seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months and years can never to be taken back or stopped instead work more harder, move on , push through.
Better to be silent and  be thought a fool than to speak to remove all doubt. Time can never be reversed let by gone by gone and grab today's opportunity to shine like no other day remember many of life failures were those who did not know how close they were to success when they quitted.

Money


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Money is power, and you ought to be reasonably ambitious to have it. You ought because you can do more with it than you could without it. Money printed your Bible, money builds your house,  Money bought your phone, Money makes you happy Money is the difference between the rich and poor. The man who gets the largest salary can do the most good with the power that is furnished to him. Work for it because you ought to have it.

Causes of poverty


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Laziness - Always giving excuses.

No planning - Moving to and fro just for moving sake. Unbudgeted spending

Loose determination - no confident

Family mutual impoverishment

SPECIAL EDITION! "THIS IS HEAVEN"

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There is this story of a man who had a
dream one night. He dreamed that he died
and found himself immediately in a large
room. In the room there was a huge
banquet table filled with all sorts of
delicious foods. Around the table people
were seated who were hungry but the
chairs were five feet from the edge of the
table and people apparently could not get
out of the chairs and their arms were not
long enough to reach the food. In the dream
there was a single large spoon, five feet
long. Everyone was fighting, quarrelling,
pushing each other, trying to grab hold of
that spoon. Finally in that awful scene, one
strong bully got hold of the spoon. He
reached out, picked up some food, and
turned it to feed himself. Only to find out
that the spoon was so long that as he held
it out he could not touch his mouth. The
food fell off. Immediately someone else
grabbed the spoon. Again, the person
reached far enough to pick up the food, but
could not feed himself. In the dream, the
man was observing it all said to his guide,
“this is hell-to have food and not be able to
eat it”.
The guide replied, “Where do u think u are?
This is hell. But this is not ur place. Come
with me.”
And they went into another room. In this
room things were the same as the previous
room. People were not able to reach food
coz of the same reasons. Yet they had a
satisfied, pleasant look on their faces. Only
then the visitors see the reason why.
Exactly as before, there was only one
spoon. It, too, had a handle five feet long.
Yet no one was fighting for it. In fact, one
man, who held the handle, reached out,
picked up the food, and put it into the
mouth of someone else, which ate it and
was satisfied. That person then took the
spoon by the handle, reached for the food
from the table, and put it back to the mouth
of the man who had just given him
something to eat. And the guide said, “This
is heaven”.
People who try to achieve happiness with
selfishness end up it in a hell on earth. If u
live by the laws of God and choose to look
for people who have burdens, you might be
able to help them. But if you  look for your own
happiness, ignoring the needs of those
around you, you will lose out altogether.
DEDICATED TO YOU MOM
Mrs Sabina Laryea Adams.As you celebrate your earth day today. Mom we love you bunch!!!

GUIDEPOSTS REALIZING YOUR DREAMS

Your dream does not need anyone's stamp of approval ignore those who sneer and pour cold water on your fire.

Your dream can began with what you posses now.

Don't despise small beginnings, stop discouraging yourself.

Don't be afraid of what others will say(hijackers). Whatever your dream is you can become.
There are difficulties for everybody but every moment is an opportunity.

APPRECIATION

An old man was saying I  wish I was young I would be saving money for my future.
A young man was also saying, I wish I  am an old man, I would be paying no fees, bills and rents.
The circles of life is such that if you don't value what you have you will always blame your past or yourself. Just like the old man was saying he wish he was young, the young man was also saying he wish he was an old man. Appreciate what you have,  there is none like you, work harder and expect a great tomorrow.

APPRECIATION

An old man was saying I  wish I was young I would be saving money for my future.
A young man was also saying, I wish I  am an old man, I would be paying no fees, bills and rents.
The circles of life is such that if you don't value what you have you will always blame your past or yourself. Just like the old man was saying he wish he was young, the young man was also saying he wish he was an old man. Appreciate what you have,  there is none like you, work harder and expect a great tomorrow.

THE MAVERICK CAB DRIVER AND THE DETERMINED WOMAN!


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I was once in a  taxi in Swedru, heading towards Greenland Hotel when a woman stopped the taxi and informed the driver he will alight in front of the PWD building  but she will cause financial lost to the taxi driver, instead of the usual Ghs1.40p She will pay Ghs 1.00. Everyone in the cab was upset upon hearing the amount the woman wanted to pay. The cabdriver smiled and said to the woman please you can sit so the woman joined us in the taxi. The driver then, told the passengers to check the inscription written behind the car. Which reads, 'Nnso Nyame Y3' meaning 'Nothing is too big for God'. I was really marvelled after I read the inscription until I got to my destination and alighted still meditating on what the driver said.

Moral lessons.

Be determined, even though the woman knew he may be denied access to the taxi yet she made the move.

Focus, the driver was blindfolded since his only focus was to get his daily sales and nothing else.

Don't follow the masses. Even though all the passengers were angry and didn't want the driver to let the woman in yet  his services was first at heart

DONT BE LIMITED


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There were some children  about 14 in number who were about to play football on a backyard park of an old man. Being afraid that  the old man may send them out of his park, sent a boy to check whether the old man was there or not?  The boy came back and reported that the old man was not around. Meanwhile the old man who was watching them from afar smiled and said to himself. Finally, 'there is no need to walk around aimlessly let me watch this children as they play the game, I also enjoy watching and free from boredom'. The children played and played as the old man was also watching amazingly and was so happy all day long.

Morals

We worry too much - we  tend to care so much about things which are of no need. The children thought the old man would send them away meanwhile he was even bored and wanted some noisy place to be.

Enjoy what you do - As the children were happy playing the old man was also happy watching.

Explore - The children were not having a play ground but that didn't stop them it was not a limitation for them from playing they moved to the available place which they can play.

A BOOK OF MANY PAGES

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Knowledge is now so various, so extensive and minute that is impossible for any man to know thoroughly more than one small branch - young men should put all their eggs in one basket and then watch the basket.

One at a time, choose wisely you can do it. You are a book of many pages. Renew the manipulation of your mind (thinking). Accepting and believing in change is a plus to success. Venture out of your comfort for the reward far outweighs
living your comfort zone.

ONE AT A TIME!


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It's now clear and loud that no one can learn, acquire  and become master in everything in the world. In my study of 'Theory and practice of counseling and psychotherapy' a book by Gerald Corey I  have realized that everything there's a process and ways of doing. Just like no one can be a President without the constitution's mandate. Stanford university was once a rejected Harvard's student, Bola Ray the CEO of EIB network, Ghana's second biggest media group was once working for Multimedia Group Limited. One at a time. Relax, plan and be determined. Bare in mind yesterday's tomorrow is today no time to waste now in the time, start climbing the steps of life to success.

BECOMING A POSITIVE THINKER


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positive mental attitude is basic to all achievements. Having set out on yourself study towards a more successful way of life, begin by considering your habits of thinking.
Our mental attitude determines our reaction to whatever situation that confronts us. We react favourably, constructively, positively or negatively. Our mental attitude defines our personality.
Men and women of great achievement have learned the art of keeping their minds  positive. They have learned the art of keeping their minds directed to that which they desire from life.

WAYS TO MAKE YOURSELF SMARTER


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Review all options before making a choice

Read

Hang around winners

Keep a personal diary to learn quickly from past experience.

Get a hobby

Memorize - poems, quotes, names.

Job-hop, Change jobs and step out of your comfort zones, love adventure

Travel

Hang around someone stupid, the more questions you answer the more smarter you will be

Don't be afraid to fail.

BE KNOWN FOR SOMETHING!

Is the title of today's inspirational message. Often you hear people say 'I am proud of you', 'I trust you','you are such a gentleman' and all sorts of things. Do people compliment such about you? Okay, if they have not been doing that, adopt a strategy today brand yourself with something unique, stalk to your answers but don't be too hard. Celebrate uniqueness and not sameness. Educate people about your theory. Be decent avoid the system of copying 'role models' (not saying you shouldn't choose one) you are a whole. Showcase your talents God didn't give it to you to flex with it. I am known for writing inspirational messages what of you? Have a good day till we meet again tomorrow.

REPUTATION AND CHARACTER

Is the title of today's inspirational message. The circumstances amid which you live determine your reputation, the truth you believe determines your character. Reputation is what you are supposed to be; character is what you are. Reputation is a photograph; character is the face. Reputation comes over one from without; character grows up from within. Reputation is what you have when you come to a new community; character is what you have when you go away. Your reputation is learned in an hour; your character is built in life time. Reputation grows like a mushroom; character grows like the oak. A single newspaper report gives you your reputation; a life of toil gives you your character. Reputation makes you rich or makes you poor; character makes you happy or makes you miserable. Reputation is what men say about you on your tombstone of God. Let these tell the world your real being.

BE THE BUT!

Is the title of today's inspirational message. Oh yeah be the but. In our daily lives we find ourselves in places and environment which people often describe as by such. But you should be the exemption. I mean always try not to be described by the evil deeds people do. Everyone is cheating BUT you are not. Ghanaians are corrupt BUT you are not. Learn not to impress too. Let this be your motive in your life.

FROGS

Is the title of today's inspirational message A group of frogs was traveling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit. All the other frogs gathered around the pit. When they saw how deep the pit was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead. The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump out of the pit with all of their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down and died. The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the other frogs said, "Did you not hear us?" The frog explained to them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the entire time. Lessons to be learnt: 1. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it through the day. 2. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes to kill him or her. Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your path. The power of words.... it is sometimes hard to understand that an encouraging word can go such a long way. Anyone can speak words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in difficult times. Special is the individual who will take the time to encourage another.

THE VALUE OF A SMILE

Is the title of today's inspirational message The value of a smile is priceless, yet it is the cheapest, easiest, most rewarding and most sincere gift to anyone that crosses your path. A smile makes a person's day, anybody's day even a stranger's day. A smile is infectious. Start infecting people with your smile today. A smile is nature's best antidote for discouragement. It brings rest to the weary, sunshine to those who are sad, and hope to those who are hopeless and defeated. A smile is so valuable that it can't be bought, begged, borrowed, or taken away against your will. You have to be willing to give a smile away before it can do anyone else any good. So if someone is too tired or grumpy to flash you a smile, let him have one of yours anyway. Nobody needs a smile as much as the person who has none to give.

SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY

Learn from the untold story of this man. 'Spend time with your family' Is the title of today's inspirational message. A man narrating his date with his mother after 21 yrs..... .After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.” Smile The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. “What’s wrong, are you well?” she asked. My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. “I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.” She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.” That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s. “I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, “she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting.” We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print . Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. “It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said. “Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,” I responded. During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation – nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.” I agreed. “How was your dinner date?” asked my wife when I got home. “Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered. A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. Shocked Cry It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her. Cry Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: “I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates – one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.” At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: “I LOVE YOU” and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Smile Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till some other time.

Wednesday, May 25, 2016

MIND YOUR WORDS

Is the title of today's inspirational message. A farmer insulted his neighbor. Realizing his mistake, he went to the preacher to ask for forgiveness. The preacher told him to take a bag of feathers and drop them in the center of town. The farmer did as he was told. Then the preacher asked him to go and collect the feathers and put them back in the bag. The farmer tried but couldn't as the feathers had all blown away. When he returned with the empty bag, the preacher said, "The same thing is true about your words. You dropped them rather easily but you cannot retrieve them, so be very careful in choosing your words." You heard me right. Spoken words can't be retrieved

SPECIAL EDITION! GREAT ATTITUDE


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Once a Bird asked a BEE, After a continuous hard work, you prepare the honey.......... But a man steals the honey. Do you not feel sad?" Then the Bee replied, Never...... Because a man can only steal my honey, not the art of making honey.
 
LESSONS

Appreciate what you have. 
Don't worry about what you can't do nothing about. 
Learn to move on even if you fall you can stand. 
Stay focus like the Bee. 

 DEDICATED TO YOU 

Miss Florence Aidoo Donkoh.
 Chill but please don't freeze. The love is deep.